A lot of guys get stuck in the friendzone. If you are a member of the cougar dating club, this is probably the last thing you want to happen. But how can you become more sexually attractive to women? Stop flexing your pecks for a moment a listen up. Although it can be helpful if you look like Greek God, you actually don’t need an amazing body to be sexy. Sexiness is a state of mind and it comes from within, so follow these tips and you will never get stuck in the friendzone again.
Women are attracted to guys who are self-assured and have confidence. If you end up looking at the floor every time you approach a woman, you really need to work on your self-esteem. However, there is a thin line between arrogance and confidence, so be sure not to cross it.
Let your sense of humor shine through
You can go a long way if you have a great sense of humor. Okay, you don’t need to be Kevin Hart or Chris Rock, but try to make her laugh. Trust us, if you can make a woman laugh, you can make her do anything. A great sense of humor instantly makes you seem sexy, approachable and shows intelligence. So just smile and keep things light.
Make her think about sex, without being crude
You need to be able to flirt with cougars and maintain eye contact. If you manage to make her think about sex without actually talking about it, you are on the right track. Feel free to tease her a little bit, use double entendre and show her that you are interested in her without being crude.
Watch your body language
Don’t slouch, cross your arms or look at the floor! If you want to impress a cougar you need to learn how to sit, stand and walk like a man. When you are talking with a mature lady, feel free to lean toward her in a relaxed but attentive manner.
Listen to her
Women want to be understood and listened to, so keep your eyes and attention on her. Ask follow-up questions that show you understand what she is talking about and don’t let your mind or eyes wander while she is speaking to you.